7 Signs That You're A Healer And Don't Know It

Have you ever felt like a puzzle piece that never fit anywhere - in people/groups, your biz or even in your family - you feel like “I just don't fit in! What’s wrong with me?”

This is the personal journey/awakening, the exact things that I struggled with - I thought I was broken, I thought I was crazy, I thought things were wrong with me, I'd never fit in, I felt like that puzzle piece.

Let me share a secret with you: You might be a healer.

What comes to mind when you think of a healer - medical practitioners, doctors, nurses, psychiatrist, opthamologist, massage therapist etc?

In the most basic terms - a healer is a person who can cure or ease dis-ease.

Dis-ease is something that elevates a person's distrust or anguish. So, in a broader sense, a healer is something or someone that can alleviate another person's distress or anguish.

Think about it: If you’re a mom, you’re a healer every single day. Our kiddos are constantly looking to us to ease their distress. But, let’s go deeper….

I want to talk about 7 Signs you might be experiencing in your day today life that are going to give you some aha-moments. You may be struggling with these as a quirk or a weakness, but that’s only because you’re not stepping up into your bigger power.

7 Signs That You're A Healer And Don't Know It -

#1 - You can't stand large crowds or groups of people - Do you feel overwhelmed in a large crowd? If you put me on stage to train 100s or 1000s of people by myself, I'm fine as long as I'm not interacting and my energy is protected. But, if you put me in a room full of people to be “out there in the wild”, I'll panic. I REALLY struggle and feel anxious.

Is this you too?

I just can-not stand crowds. I avoid them like the plague.

Introverts & the empaths I’m talking to you especially. In these situations you are giving away too much energy + you’re feeling other people's energy - good, bad & ugly. It physically drains you. If group settings are constantly overwhelming this could be a sign that you are a healer and you've got a bigger calling.

Just 1 piece won't make sense so let's look at the bigger picture.

# 2 - You feel the intense need to help people - Maybe you've mislabeled yourself as being a people pleaser. Maybe you feel like this is a burden. But if you really feel into it - is it a deep need to simply help or to be of service aka to heal people? I know I am the "world's worst/best" at that. I literally can't stand it, I feel physically bad if I know someone is in pain or if I know someone is struggling, unhappy or not experiencing joy. If they are in my atmosphere I'm completely distracted + my attention is drawn to the need to help them.

#3 You've experienced some sort of trauma that has changed your life - So often we limit ourselves if we've experienced trauma -- using that as an excuse to why we “can't”. However, one of the signs that you may be a healer is that you experienced a trauma of some sort in your life. In ancient history, when tribes had healers, how they knew who their healer was, was when he or she was “struck by lightning and they survived”. So when we put that in modern terms, that "and survived": is the key. They survived the trauma, came out of the fire or regained themselves and become whole again. Maybe you've experienced a near death experience, abuse, addiction, loss of a loved one or an illness you battled; whatever it was - you battled and survived. That trauma was a part of your story or your journey as a healer because your story heals others. We heal most by seeing someone who's been through what we've been through or faced what we've faced and they are thriving and surviving and are exactly the light that we need to see.

#4 You love crystals and the healing properties associated with them -. If you are naturally called to healing stones, it's a sign that you are a natural healer. You are attuned to another natural healing tool. I've always been drawn to crystals; at first they were just pretty rocks that decorated my home but very quickly my attachment grew into a full blown obsession.

#5 You believe you’re a spiritual person. Do you believe in God or a higher power, angels or spirits? Do you connect with the universe? Do you have that higher connection? That's extremely important and is an overlying theme across anyone who's a natural healer. Having a connection to Source gives you peace, love, comfort and direction.

#6 You tend to have vivid dreams often. I had horrible nightmares when I was a kid - constant, recurring…. all the time. I’ve always had powerful dreams and there have been 3 very distinct instances in my life where I've dreamt something that was so off the wall & nothing related to my life and those dreams ended up coming true within a few days. Dreams always used to scare me before, but then I got power over them and now pay very close attention to them. SO if you are having very vivid dreams, it's important you analyse them carefully. Your dreams can be a message from source or a connection to your higher power. As messages come through journal your thoughts after, write down the images, feelings, messages you can recall. Things to always listen are - people in the dreams, situations and animals. Start paying attention.

#7 You can feel the energy of others, especially if it’s negative. Can you feel the energy of others? Being an empath really means you are affected by + you can feel or have empathy for others. Example - Let's pretend that someone lost a loved one and they are talking to you about it, sharing their pain and you respond - “I'm so sorry I can understand how you feel”  or you go as far as “I KNOW how you feel because I've been through it”. That’s sympathy.

So imagine someone's talking to you - they are sad, upset, even angry- If you’re an empath, and someone's in your space and they are hurting, they don't even need to tell you what's going on. They could even have not told you what's going on & have a happy smile on their face but they are hurting that badly inside YOU will FEEL the loss, the pain & the sorrow as if it is yours. I had an experience when I was driving once, I had to pull over because I felt this anxiety and panic attack, such huge sadness and it freaked me out for a few minutes until I realised it wasn't mine; it literally was someone else's emotions.

Unfortunately a BIG sign of a healer - in our day and time, is healers battle depression and anxiety. Do you feel the same? Do you battle anxiety or depression or feel like you are in a dark black hole? Do you feel like why can't I be happier? When you are absorbing so many other energies you don't understand what's going on and you haven't learned to put up a wall to protect yourself. So it's very important that if you are a natural healer there are steps you need to take in order to protect and make yourself most powerful.

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Top 5 Crystals For Beginners

In part two of our #AbundantCrystalCourse I talked about my top 5 crystals for beginners. These are beauties I use almost every day. 

✨Amethyst is a powerhouse stone. It vibrates at a high frequency, creating a bubble of spiritual protection against negative energy. It awakens higher consciousness, assists in wise decision-making free of emotional confusion, and facilitates meditation and intuition.

Uses: Intuition, Meditation, Protection, Purification, Wisdom

✨Flourite clears and clarifies mental clutter. If you are confused and distracted by too many ideas, or worries about the future, flourite will put your mental mess in order, enabling you to focus on what really matters. It’s a support for work that involves making subtle distinctions, or a lot of decisions in quick succession.

Uses: Clarity, Creativity, Purification

✨Clear quartz is the most useful and versatile of gemstones for metaphysical work. It has the unique property of being “programmable”, meaning you can infuse it with your intention and then it will amplify it, working on your behalf to manifest it in the world. It also acts to amplify the energies of any other stone you are working with.

Uses: Manifesting, Meditation, Purification

✨Rose quartz stone of love. It helps dissolve old hurts and open the heart to trust in love and have faith in the benevolence of the Universe. It has a melting effect on mistrust and suspicion, and reawakens the heart chakra to abundance of love available to it. great stone to place in your home or workplace to increase the vibration of harmony and love in the environment.

Uses: Emotional Healing, Hope, Joy, Love, Nurturing

✨Carnelian is about action. By activating the first three chakras, Carnelian provides a powerful boost to your willpower, with the physical energy and drive to back it up. If your heart wants something, carnelian can give you the confidence and power to go for it.

Uses: Confidence, Empowerment, Physical Health, Vitality.

How To Choose Your Mala Prayer Beads & Meanings


Ok y’all, mala beads are taking over people’s wardrobes – and it’s about time. What is this fashion trend I’m missing out on all about, you ask?


Choosing the right mala prayer beads can seem daunting. It’s important to remember that depending on the person, a mala necklace or bracelet can represent something different or serve a different purpose.

No two malas are the same – whether it serves as something to inspire you, as a reminder of your intention, or a tool for meditation, it’s unique and specific to you.

how to pick the right mala

There is no right or wrong way to choose mala prayer beads. While some believe that you should study and consider the color, shape, intention, energy and beauty of each mala, the best way is to let your intuition guide you.

You might be drawn to different prayer beads for different reasons. Whichever mama you are first drawn to is often the one that you are destined to have.

Regardless of whether you are drawn to it by something as simple as color or stone, it’s best to follow your heart and allow it to happen.

researching your mala prayer beads

Once you feel you have chosen your mala, do some research and learn about the intention and meaning of your chosen beads. You might be pleasantly surprised – more often than not, it will be exactly what you’re looking for or needing in that moment. Your intention helped guide you there.

what to ask yourself when choosing your next mala

Some questions we find ourselves asking when looking for our next mala are:

  • What are you trying to manifest?
  • Are you looking to cultivate more strength, more love, more truth?
  • Will you be meditating or manifesting? Or both?

Depending on your answer to these questions, there may be a mala that is more suitable to you than others, on paper.

However, if different to the mala you were initially drawn to, we strongly encourage you to compare the two. What drew you to your initial mala? Where do these malas differ?  

Regardless of the mala you choose or the intentions you have, the most important thing to remember when beginning this journey is to follow your heart. Once you’ve chosen and received your mala, it’s best to activate your prayer beads to align it with your intentions and your energy. Follow your heart.

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Mala beads are a string of beads, typically 108 beads, that are used to help the mind focus on meditating. Of course, they’re all used to make your yoga style and bohemian outfit turnt up!

But where does a girl start? I’ve got you covered, babe. Below is a mini crash course on my personally favorite mala beads and their mala meanings.

Balance and Inner Peace
Mihira balances your yin-yang energies

Kali beads inspire creative visualization

Eliminating Anxiety & Emotional Discomfort
Nandi increases well-being for your body and solace for the spirit to eliminate panic attacks and depression

Kampa beads provide positive and cheerful energies

Anantha mala bracelet enhances your intuition and intellect

Khorasan beads channel luck, success and creativity

Humble, Stay Grounded
Inyo beads offers a natural balance of grounding energies

Zarana beads provide protective and calming properties

Swaathi mala beads encourage self-empowerment

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